Robyn Sekel
Coach
What made you become a coach?
I had played soccer starting at age 5 and played until my kids started school. When my son started playing 6U, I never dreamed of coaching but wanted to help out so I signed up to referee and did that through 8U. I enjoyed being a referee and learned a different aspect of soccer that you don't get when just playing. Then my daughter started playing 8U and had two wonderful coaches that made coaching look fun, so I started to get the itch. The following year, my daughter moved up to 10U and I decided to coach her team. Then the call came from my son's 12U Division that they needed coaches, so I coached his team as well. I thought "I might as well jump in all the way" and I haven't looked back since.
Why do you keep coaching?
I enjoy being on the field teaching these kids, not just soccer skills, but what it takes to play on a team, how to get joy, not by scoring, but when players can string together multiple passes, when they lead each other on the field and hold their heads up high, even when they lose. It's so rewarding to see how they improve from the first practice to the last game and how excited they get when on the field.
What was your biggest challenge?
If practices and game line-ups are prepared ahead of time, then there aren't too many challenges. When your goal is to have fun on the field and know that the kids just want to play, then it's great. There are going to be days when the players (at any age) are not going to listen and are restless but there are going to be the fantastic days when it all clicks. I guess if there is a challenge, it's the parents who get a bit too competitive when it's really to just develop the kids and have fun.